College is very different from what they tell you in high school

Going to college has always been my goal. From a young age, I was determined to attend a four-year university. Throughout high school, I worked diligently—turning in assignments on time, studying late, and absorbing every bit of advice I could get to prepare for college.

I trusted the guidance from teachers and advisors, believing they had the answers about what college would be like. After all, why would they mislead me?

Now, as I enter my third year at San Jose State University, I’ve found that while some advice was helpful, much of it was off the mark.

**Myth: Cellphones will not be tolerated in college.**

In high school, cellphones were treated like contraband. I dreaded the thought of a text message or reminder notification interrupting class, and teachers would even confiscate phones to prevent distractions. We were led to believe this was to prepare us for college.

In reality, I’ve used my cellphone more in the past two years of college than I ever did in high school. Many professors don’t mind cellphones at all; in fact, they’re often essential. I’ve taken quizzes on my phone and used it for group projects. In college, having a cellphone is as common and necessary as having a laptop.

**Myth: Professors are cold and heartless.**

High school teachers sometimes made it seem like asking for an extension or understanding would be futile. I was bracing myself for professors who wouldn’t care about my personal circumstances.

This couldn’t be further from the truth. Most of my professors have been understanding and supportive. I still stay in touch with professors from my first semester and frequently visit them during office hours. I’ve even received extensions without any fuss.

**Myth: College will be harder than high school.**

I was bracing for endless study sessions, high-stakes exams, and a grueling schedule. I feared I’d crumble under the pressure.

However, college offers a freedom that high school doesn’t. Instead of spending six hours a day in class, you might only have two or three classes lasting just over an hour each. While some classes are longer or more challenging, a well-planned schedule can make college less stressful than high school. The key is in how you manage your time and perspective.

High school felt like a monotonous routine, but college feels like taking control of your own life. Whether you choose to work part-time or socialize, the choices are yours to make.

Not all the advice from high school was off-base, though. The best tip I’d give any incoming freshman is to avoid 7 a.m. classes if you can. Waking up early for these classes can be tough, especially when attendance isn’t mandatory. Trust me, you’ll thank me later.